" If you can’t live your life without having to prove to others that you are happy, are you really happy?
If you can’t live your life without having to prove to others that you are straight, are you really straight?
If you can’t live your life without having to prove to others that you are smart, are you really smart?
If you can’t live your life without having to prove to others that you are rich, are you really rich?
If you can’t live your life without having to prove to others that you are good, are you really good? "